MATURE DOMINATRIX

I have addressed My most frequently asked questions here. 

If you think BDSM is about Sex: Don't Book Me.

If you are not sure you will follow through with your set appointment: Don't Book Me.

HERE is the kicker.. in BDSM, it is NOT about SEX.  It is about the magical journey of the mind. 

The Power Exchange!

So, most professional Domina DO NOT HAVE SEX. If this is what you seek, better ask the Lady first before booking Her time. Better yet, anyone you are considering, READ Their entire site first. 

 

NOTE 7/05:

 

The United States Laws have changed that governed Professional Dominatrix. 

With the new changes, In ALL States, We are now considered Adult Sex Workers and will fall under the same laws as Prostitution, IF We break the Law.

 

 

Why do You require a Deposit?

This is My Business.

Most Legitimate Dominatrix have learned through trial and error that if a client does not have anything to lose, i.e. a financial investment, he is apt to NOT show up.

Should it become imperative that the appointment be canceled or changed, We are not notified. 

 

In short.. he does not value Our time. he just blows us off.

This being done, I have passed UP other bookings for this time or day, and now My booking did a "NO SHOW." 

Who Lost? I did.

I have lost the appointment and the cost of Dungeon time I paid for when Booking. (If one is used)

 

With a deposit in place, a gentlemen is more likely to contact Me and make the effort to reschedule his appointed time.

 

Most Dominants, Myself included, will make every effort to work with someone that has a deposit in place. It shows their sincerity and their integrity.

I go one step further. I will carry your deposit forward should you have to cancel and notify Me in advance. Advance, meaning in enough time to Book another appointment and cancel My Dungeon Booking without loss of My funds.. Not several hours before. 

 

The deposit will be credited as long as the rescheduled meeting culminates within 60 days.

Should you elect to treat Me in such a despicable manner as to not notify Me at all, your deposit will be forfeited.

 

How Much Of A Deposit Is Required?

It depends on the amount of time and TYPE of session you are requesting to Book. 

Other factors such as the city location.
Generally, I like to have at least 1/4 in advance.

I like a man who is invested! *wink*

 

 

 

How do i Pay My Deposit?

I do not take Credit Cards, Checks or Debit Cards.

I don't use PayPal.

Frankly, most of My clientele are married men who do not desire to leave behind a paper trail.

I ask clients to Go to their local Radio Shack, Rite Aide, CVS, Walgreens or other listed authorized companies to purchase a PRE PAID MASTERCARD REFILL Pack.

Once purchased, your receipt will have a 16 digit authorization code on it. 

I ask for this code number when you schedule your appointment. 

I will be able to tell immediately if it is a real authorization code.

For an establishment close to you that sells these refill packs, See: 

http://www.greendotonline.com

 

 

 

How do i know i won't be ripped off?

Ultimately it is YOUR responsibility as a consumer to check
out Anyone you have decided to spend time with.
Whether it's Me or someone else.

Especially if you are inexperienced in this Lifestyle.

How do you know you have not just hired a Leather Domme instead of the Sensual Domme you desired? Do you know the difference between the two? 

Read the Dominants Site for ALL the information She puts out there. If your question is not answered on the site, ASK!

Lastly, not to sound vain or crude
But the small sum of money your transaction would bring Me,
In no way would compare to, or compensate for what I have to lose should I behave in such a despicable manner.

 

Is there such a thing as First Time Nerves? 

Yes, there is for both of U/us.
However, please tell Me if this is your first time to be with a Professional Dominatrix or Experience BDSM.

This will help Guide Me in what you should experience the first time that you will be comfortable with and enjoy.

 

What if i change my mind? 

Let me assure you that I am a very understanding woman.
I would never force anyone to make a decision they are uncomfortable with, or will feel "GUILT" about later.
Please be aware however, you will still be expected to honor your debt in full.
I would rather be told, and W/we part on good terms, then not be told and have you go away unhappy.

IF, you feel there is a possibility that you will not follow through, kindly DO NOT BOOK MY TIME

or waste your money. 

 

Will you meet me for Coffee, Dinner or a Drink?

Some gentlemen want to meet to see if I am someone
they would like to spend time with.
Please DO NOT make the mistake of assuming I will do this for FREE.
You are wasting My time. My website is up-dated regularly.
I keep my photos accurate and up to date.

If you wish to meet, BOOK a 1 Hour DINNER DATE.
That fee is $250.00

 

What if i don't stay the entire hour?

Every Professional Service you utilize has established fees.

They do not provide partial refunds NOR do they give you reduced rates! Why should My services be any different?

I will not argue, debate, or relent on this issue. 

If you can't afford My fees, Don't schedule an appointment!

 

 

 

Why do You need to know who i am?

First and foremost, you are the person I am going to be locked away with for a pre-set amount of time. I want to know you ARE who you claim to be. Just as you want to establish I am a verified Professional Dominatrix.

Since I do check ID on meeting and when you sign your play contract, it's not a good idea to lie for various reasons.

 

 

 

Will You provide In Call service to my hotel?

Absolutely Not. I am not an Escort or Social Entertainer.

Frankly, I like all the subs I play with to be vocal. That is not the type of "noise" adjoining rooms need to hear. 

Who needs calls from the Desk Clerk asking you to turn down your TV or a visit from Hotel Security? I do not like to STOP a session once it starts, unless you code.

(use your safe word) It breaks the momentum of the session.

But I will Book time in a facility that will be easy to access from Downtown, Mid-town, and close to suburbs By Taxi.

 

i want to know if you will have sex with a client during session?

No, NEVER

BDSM is not about Sex. It can enhance your sexual feelings, true.

But only because your mind is the largest Sex Organ in your body. 

The mind takes you on a journey of excitement which one associates with sex, because like a sexual act, our bodies naturally release peptides when sexually aroused. The molecular construction of these peptides parallels that of opiates like heroin or morphine, but are many times more powerful.

 

 

 

i realize that some Dominants place disclaimers on their sites to protect their self, but will do sexual play.

you are probably right. However know going into this:

I AM NOT ONE OF THEM!

I abide By the State Laws of Texas, The U.S. Laws, and the Laws of ANY State I may visit to work.

No one.. or Any Act or Play that is considered illegal, No AMOUNT of MONEY will entice Me to break the Law.

Nothing is worth going to jail over as far as I am concerned.

I value My freedom too much.

 

 

 

i am into anal play or have a FANTASY of being taken by a woman. 

Can You do this for me?

Sorry No.

Because you are paying Me for a live session, The U.S. penal code stipulates that BODY Penetration of any kind, moves Me from an Adult Sex Worker to Prostitute. 

As well, That act (Sodomy) is Illegal in the state of Texas. 

I could therefore Be arrested.

 

 

 

i have the Fantasy that embarrasses me. i desire to be made to serve a man orally. Can you bring another person or arrange this?

your Fantasy is quite normal. It is a common one among males, though few admit it to other men. It is that "HOMOPHOBIC" fear. 

As well, many men feel that by being "FORCED" it is not a choice of theirs to make. 

Thus alleviating any guilt feelings.

 

I can NOT, nor WILL I provide another person to cater to this FANTASY. 

The act it's self is illegal, period.

 

Nor will I provide the name of Anyone who would consider breaking the law. If I did, I could and would be arrest on Charges of Pandering and violation of the Mann Act as well as Racketeering. 

ALL FEDERAL OFFENSES.

 

 

 

i want to learn or experience strap-on Dildo training. Is this possible?

NO. 

Not from Me or almost any other true professional Domina.

Again, State Laws, though often seem somewhat ambiguous in their wording, states:

As a professional, I can not strap anything ONTO My body that May entice the client to derive sexual arousal or pleasure. 

I AM NOT ALLOWED to penetrate ANY BODY ORIFICE.

If I do, I am then moved to Prostitute.

 

 

 

i am into pony play. Can You do any insertion of a tail?

No. That is penetration of the Anus. As a pro, any penetration of ANY body cavity is illegal for Me to do. 

As well, depending WHO is interpreting the law, it could be viewed as Sodomy.

Sodomy is AGAINST the Law in Texas as well as MOST States!

Besides, Horses already have tails!

 

 

 

Am i allowed to do self masturbation during or at the end of our session?

Not in front of Me. 

Again, the law makes this a crime because you are paying Me.

Should this be your desire, you may use the lavatory or Shower facilities during the last 15 minutes of your paid session to handle anything you wish in "private."

I do not need nor want to know what you are doing in there.

This keeps both you and Me, 100% Legal.

 

 

 

Will you do Golden Showers?

No

Though I am 100% clean. I do not play with Body fluids.

 

 

 

 

Will you give me an enema?

No. 

I don't do Medical Play and again that is penetration of the anus. ILLEGAL for Me to do.

To My knowledge, the only paid professional ALLOWED to give enemas are Doctors, Registered Nurses or LVN's. Doing this act, I run the risk that an added charge of "Practicing Medicine without a License" could also be brought against Me.

 

 

 

 

i really want to experience BDSM with a strong powerful woman but am afraid you might leave marks on my body and i am married. Will you leave marks?

I never intentionally leave marks unless it is asked for by the client.

Generally when one of My clients is married,  I do a lighter form of play, just to be on the safe side. But you should be aware that sometimes in the passion of a scene, accidents DO HAPPEN. It is often called the "oops" factor by those of U/us that are in the Lifestyle.

And naturally, you might have a warm little RED BOTTOM for a few hours.

 

 

 

i want to be a sissy maid. Do You do this?

Oh .. I just adore little Sissy Maids. I have an endless list of tasks for you to do.

But Beware, if it is not done to My liking.. you will be summarily punished!

 

 

 

i want to see what it feels like to cross dress. But being married, I don't have any clothing.

Not to worry. I have an extensive wardrobe for both large and small frame men.

I can fit you in a Bra, Lingerie, or typical everyday women's clothing. Or ALL.

The choice is mine in How I want you to look.

If it is something specific you want, or perhaps a size I don't carry, you will be expected to bring it or pay for it, If I have to purchase it.

Be sure to tell Me your size when you Book your appointment.

 

 

 

i want to see what i look like made up as a total woman. Can You do this for me?

YES!

I have an extensive line of make-up, wigs, clothing and heels.

Let Me show you what a slut you can be.

 

 

 

i am into Foot Worship. Will I be allowed to do this?

Oh My.. but of course. I adore foot worship. Especially if you know what you are doing.

If not, I will train you how I like to have it done.

Couple this with humiliation to some degree and I'll make you go to the salon, kneel beside the

attendant while she does the pedicure. Then allow total worship in private AFTER W/we leave.

 

 

 

i want to worship Your body. May i?

you may serve Me as a slave. At My instruction and guidance, you will be able to Worship My Body as I deem appropriate and desire. 

The CHOICE is ALWAYS MINE to make.

 

However, according to the law, you are NOT allowed to caress or place My nipples in your mouth. Nor place your mouth or tongue to My genitals or in My anus.

I will instruct you where and how you may touch and worship Me allowing you to Show Me exactly how much you appreciate all My ample curves and femininity!

 

 

 

i have never done this, but want to. What will our time together be like?

I can honestly say, I don't know.

So DON'T ASK ME.

I don't have a pat routine or script I follow. 

Each person is different, which makes every encounter different.

 

I can tell you, I will try to make your time enjoyable and pleasurable so you will want to return as often as you can to spend time with Me.

 

you must do your part by relaxing and trusting in order to enjoy the experience.

If you do not trust that I will not exceed your limitation or abide by your safe words, DON'T BOOK MY TIME.

 

If you are afraid, DO NOT BOOK MY TIME.

 I am not about to talk anyone into anything they are not comfortable with doing.

 

 

 

 

If you have a specific fantasy you would like to act out...

I suggest you write it out for Me to read and W/we will discuss it before I start your session.

I DO NOT WANT TO DISCUSS IT ON THE PHONE or EMAIL!

Having been a Professional for so long, I have come to understand that men who do this VIA phone or mail are usually always players. 

They waste My time and very seldom Book a session.

 

This is My fulltime profession. This is how I earn My living.

Kindly show Me the Dignity and Respect you would show any Doctor, Dentist or Professional you would hire to utilize their skill, knowledge and services.

 

 

 

i don't have much spend able cash. Can i work out a deal with you?

Unfortunately, No. 

I am not in the habit of extending credit for My services.

My utility companies want to be paid MONTHLY.

Often, the things we desire in life are expensive and sometimes beyond our daily means.

My suggestion is that you save a little every time you can. 

When you have the needed amount, call Me and BOOK A SESSION.

A goal worked toward , is something that is appreciated much greater....when finally reached.

 

 

 

i have always had a Fantasy about being kidnapped by a woman. Is this possible?

Sorry, Not any more. Even with a signed contract I would not do this. 

Today's Society, being what it is, I could be shot and killed by some well meaning citizen. 

 

Some Fantasy's Should just stay that, especially when they put others at risk, or in Harms Way.

The primary basis that BDSM lifestyle is founded on is:

SAFE, SANE, CONSENSUAL PLAY

 

 

 

i want to be Blackmailed. Will You do this?

Extortion is a FEDERAL OFFENSE

Though I totally understand the elements involved in this type of scenario, I will not participate in this activity UNLESS W/we have a face to face meeting, you present 2 valid forms of photo ID and I walk away with a signed contract in My hands, to protect Myself.

Once completed..you will never know when it will start.

 

 

 

ARE YOU MARRIED?

No, I am not.

 

 

Do YOU have casual dates?
I do not.
I am not interested in casual dating.

If you are in town and want Interesting Company for Dinner,

then Book a Dinner Date with Me. $250 / Hour

 

 

 

What turns You On? 

The Gray Matter. I love the Mind.

A man of Intelligence. It matters not whether it is acquired through Higher Education with a degree, or through life experiences. 

A Great Silk Tie

Gray Hair is a turn on for Me

Beautiful Eyes

A Warm Welcoming smile that reaches his eyes.

Manicured Nails

The smell of nice after shave or cologne

 

A man in a Kilt

A Man that wants to pamper, spoil, and please JUST ME when W/we are together, while showing Me proper Respect.

 

A man who does what he is told..When he is told to do it!

 

 

 

 

my daily appointments or meetings have set me behind schedule. What should i do?

Excuse yourself for a moment and call Me.

I will work with you in this matter. Having been an Executive before, I understand that many times this happens.

I would rather rearrange O/our appointment time, than have you feel rushed or flustered.

There must always be open communication between U/us.

Do NOT wait till the last moment to notify Me.  

you have NO IDEA what My plans are for the rest of the day or evening.

Things may have to be shuffled, but W/we can work it out.

 

 

 

 

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